Her name, her choice: Why married women should not have to surrender their surnames

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Philippine law already allows married women to retain their maiden names. Yet institutional practices continue to make some women defend a choice that should never have been questioned.

MANILA (November 11)  — A woman can spend decades building her identity under her maiden name—earning degrees, establishing a career, building a business, and gaining professional recognition—only to be told after marriage that she must use her husband’s surname.

The irony is that Philippine law does not require her to do so.

This gap between what the law recognizes and what women experience in government offices, banks and other institutions is at the center of two proposed amendments to the Civil Code recently approved by the House Committee on Revision of Laws.

House Bills No. 1648 and 8630 seek to clarify Article 370 of the Civil Code by expressly recognizing a married woman’s option to retain her maiden first name and surname.

The committee approved the measures on October 5, 2026, while the House of Representatives announced the development on October 29.

The proposals were introduced by Representatives Ysabel Maria J. Zamora and John Tracy F. Cagas, authors of HB 1648, and Representative Cheeno Miguel D. Almario, author of HB 8630.

But the issue goes beyond changing a provision in the law. It exposes a persistent problem in how institutions treat women’s identity after marriage—and how a legal choice can become an administrative struggle.

A right that already exists

Under Article 370 of the Civil Code, a married woman may adopt her husband’s surname, use her maiden first name together with her husband’s surname, or use her maiden first name and surname together with her husband’s surname.

The word may is crucial. It gives a woman an option, not an obligation.

In its March 5, 2010 decision in Remo v. Secretary of Foreign Affairs, the Supreme Court affirmed that a married woman is not legally required to use her husband’s surname. Marriage changes her civil status, but does not automatically change her legal name.

She may therefore continue using her maiden name after marriage.

This means a woman who chooses to retain her surname is not rejecting her marriage or refusing to recognize her husband. She is exercising a personal and legal choice over her identity.

Yet the need for additional legislation suggests that legal recognition alone has not been enough to eliminate institutional resistance.

When a simple transaction becomes a struggle

Imagine a married woman applying for a bank account, renewing professional credentials, processing government documents or updating employment records.

Her identification documents still carry her maiden name because she has chosen not to change it. But a frontline employee insists that she use her husband’s surname, questions the discrepancy, or delays the transaction.

She is then forced to explain a personal decision that the law already allows.

For women whose academic qualifications, professional licenses, employment histories and business records are established under their maiden names, changing surnames can also create unnecessary administrative complications.

The burden is not simply about what name appears on a form. It is about having to repeatedly prove that a woman’s identity remains valid after marriage.

The Philippine Commission on Women (PCW) recognized this problem in 2016 when it issued Memorandum Circular No. 2016-07.

The circular reminded government agencies, state universities and colleges, government-owned and controlled corporations, private institutions and other concerned organizations that using a husband’s surname is optional.

It also called on institutions to review their policies and train personnel, particularly frontline workers, to respect the law.

The persistence of complaints points to a problem that cannot be solved by legislation alone: the gap between women’s legal rights and the everyday practices of institutions.

The law versus institutional practice

The PCW circular was meant to prevent precisely this kind of discrimination. Yet reminders and policy directives have limited impact when frontline personnel remain unfamiliar with the law or continue applying outdated institutional practices.

For women encountering unjustified refusals in government transactions, Republic Act No. 11032, or the Ease of Doing Business and Efficient Government Service Delivery Act, provides an avenue for complaints to the Anti-Red Tape Authority (ARTA).

The law requires government offices to process applications and requests in accordance with established procedures and prohibits certain forms of unjustified refusal or delay.

This makes the issue one of public accountability, not merely personal preference. Government institutions have a responsibility to ensure that their procedures do not impose requirements that the law does not recognize.

Not all surname changes are the same

There is also an important legal distinction between retaining a maiden surname from the beginning of a marriage and reverting to it after having already adopted a husband’s surname.

These situations are not necessarily treated identically under all regulations.

For example, passport rules impose specific restrictions on a married woman who wants to revert to her maiden surname in her passport while her marriage remains subsisting.

Thus, the right to retain one’s maiden name from the outset should not be confused with an unrestricted right to switch between surnames across all government and private records.

Clearer institutional guidelines are necessary so women are not given misleading information about what the law permits.

Beyond a surname: The right to remain oneself

The proposed amendments have yet to become law. Committee approval is only one stage of the legislative process, and the measures must still undergo the remaining steps before enactment.

But their significance lies in the larger question they raise: Why should women repeatedly defend a decision that the law already allows them to make?

A surname is more than an entry in a government database. For many women, it represents years of education, professional achievement, economic independence, family history and personal identity.

Marriage creates a new legal and family relationship. It does not erase a woman’s history, achievements or individuality.

A woman may freely choose to adopt her husband’s surname. She may use both surnames, or she may retain her own.

None of these choices should determine how much respect she receives as a wife, professional, citizen or individual.

The real test of gender equality is not simply whether a right appears in the law, but whether a woman can exercise that right without being questioned, inconvenienced or penalized by the very institutions expected to protect it.

The message behind the proposed amendments is therefore bigger than a name: Marriage should never mean surrendering one’s identity, and exercising a legal right should never require a woman to ask permission.

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